When you meet your new partner try starting with a basic survey of interests:

Basic Survey of Interests:

Underline all that interest you:

After each word assign a number 1-5:

(1 = curious  up to  5 = very interested)

Ass Play                                  Face Slapping               Outdoor Bondage                           

Blindfolds                                Gags                              Plastic Wrap Bondage

Bondage                                  Hair Pulling                  Role Playing

Cages                                              Housework (lingerie)   Speech Restrictions

Cock Worship                        Housework (nude)       Uniforms

Collars                                     Hypnosis                       Vibrators

Exhibitionism                         Leashes                         Wax Play

Begging                                   Masks (wearing)           Pony/Puppy Roleplay

Body Worship                        Massage (giving)          Serving as Maid/Cook

Breast Play                             Obedience Training      Spanking

Canes and Crops                    Orgasm Control            Suspension

Chastity                                  Foot Worship               Watersports

Corner Time                           Humiliation                  Whips

Eye Contact Restrictions       Objectification              Clamps (nipple)